M'sian Woman Exposes Abusive Relationship with Narcissistic Ex-Boyfriend

In a courageous and heartfelt Instagram post, Natalie Eloise, known as @/typicallnat, revealed harrowing details of the abuse she endured during her relationship with her ex-boyfriend Justin, also known as @/Choogga. The post, shared with her followers, described a nightmarish encounter on August 3rd that led her to publicly disclose the abuse.

The Night of August 3rd and Violent Outbursts

Natalie described the relationship as troubled by Justin’s self-centered behavior and violent outbursts. The situation escalated at a birthday party they attended together, where Justin began drinking heavily around 9:40 pm and continued until 2 am. Natalie, who did not consume alcohol, recounted the events that unfolded upon their return to Justin’s residence.

According to her post, a minor disagreement Justin had with a friend triggered a violent episode. Once inside the house, he lashed out at Natalie, choking her multiple times, pulling her hair, pushing, and slapping her. The assault, which lasted about an hour, only ended when Justin went to the bathroom to calm down. Seizing the opportunity, Natalie fled the house, fearing for her safety.

Dangerous Highway Encounter

As Natalie drove home, she noticed a car driving recklessly behind her. It was Justin, who blocked her path on a two-lane highway. In a frightening escalation, Justin exited his vehicle, yelled at her for leaving, and began attacking her car. He smashed her windshield, attempting to open her door. After succeeding, he physically assaulted her by kicking, pulling her hair, punching her in the ear, jaw, and head, choking her, and pulling her shirt.

A Moment of Escape, Pattern of Abuse and Infidelity

The assault was interrupted by a passerby who stopped to ask why their cars were blocking the highway. Justin approached the passerby, giving Natalie a moment to escape and drive home.

Photos in courtesy of @typicallnat on Instagram

Throughout her relationship with Justin, Natalie experienced a pattern of abuse and infidelity. She disclosed that Justin had cheated on her multiple times, often abusing her when she questioned his behavior. Her suspicions were confirmed when she discovered Justin had been using a new social media account to communicate with other women, requesting nudes and arranging meet-ups.

Natalie opened up about how she felt gaslit and manipulated in her relationship with Justin. She shared that she frequently questioned her sanity when it came to his loyalty. She concluded her post with a message raising awareness and a reminder to herself and others about the importance of recognizing and leaving abusive relationships.

Following the revelation, Natalie recently posted on Instagram to express her gratitude for the love and unwavering support she has received and announced her need for some time away to heal and process things privately.