A Wedding That Feels Like The Past
“It’s been a while since we had it like this.”
That’s how a recent TikTok video by @hanan.amirul begins—capturing a Malay wedding held right under the block, in a familiar open space many Singaporeans grew up with.
No grand ballroom. No tight schedules. Just neighbours passing by, families gathering, and children running freely between chairs. The sounds are real—laughter, chatter, music echoing through the void deck.
More Than Just A Venue
The wedding, held in a void deck setting, reflects a time when celebrations were deeply woven into the community. Guests didn’t just attend—they lingered, mingled, and became part of the atmosphere. The space itself felt open, unfiltered and alive.
Unlike modern hotel or ballroom weddings, where time slots are fixed and transitions rushed, void deck weddings offer something harder to replicate—freedom and familiarity.
One commenter summed it up plainly:
“Void deck is the best. Bebas. Long hours… everything now feels rushed in ballrooms.”
“Make It Normal Again”
The video quickly resonated with viewers, especially younger Singaporeans discovering—or rediscovering—this tradition.
Many called for a return to such celebrations.
“pls gen z make it normal back to have wedding in void deck!”
Others reflected on how these weddings once brought entire families together, not just for the ceremony, but for the preparation.
“Last time the family all gathered overnight… prepping food while the men decorate the area.”
For some, the memories run deep across generations.
“As a non-Malay and Gen X, we grew up with void deck Malay weddings… such a shame it’s slowly disappearing.”
What’s Been Lost Along The Way
Several commenters pointed to how weddings today feel increasingly commercialised. Ballrooms, strict timelines, and vendor-heavy setups have replaced the slower, more communal pace of the past.
Even practical aspects came up—like how leftover food at void deck weddings could be shared among relatives, unlike stricter venue policies today.
“Unfinished buffet food… can pack & give away. Restaurant not allowed. All wasted.”
Still, not everything was perfect. Some acknowledged the unpredictability of weather as one downside. But for many, that trade-off seems small compared to what was gained.
A Reminder Of What Matters
At its core, the video doesn’t simply show a wedding—it brings back a feeling. A time when celebrations spilled into shared spaces. When neighbours became part of the moment. When simplicity didn’t mean less, but often meant more.
In a city that has rapidly modernised, moments like this stand out. Not because they are new—but because they remind people of what once felt normal.
Watch the video here:
@hanan.amirul It’s been a while since we had it like this. A Malay wedding under the block. Open space, real sounds. Neighbours passing by, families gathering, kids running around. Simple space, full of heart, full of vibes💕 #wedding #fyp #explore #singapore #vlog
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